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How To Plan the Perfect Proposal

Are you ready to pop the question?

 

You found your person, the one, your best friend, your soulmate. Congratulations! Our hearts go searching for its other half without us even knowing it and sometimes when we find that other piece, it takes us by surprise. You are probably filled with emotion right now; excitement, love, and maybe a little bit of nerves. Don’t worry, nervousness is normal. Its really just excitement tricking you!

So, you’ve made up your mind, you are going to ask your love to marry you!

Well, thats the pre-step to the 7-steps to plan the perfect proposal.

Hooray! You already completed this pre-step and now can jump right into planning an epic proposal that will be sure to have your love excitedly saying Yes!

Get the Ring –Get the ring that will melt their heart. The one they may have been looking at on Pintrest, the one you browsed by a few moments longer at the jeweler or the heirloom ring that has been in your family for ages. The ring is a symbol of your love and commitment to each other and if you need help in selecting one, ask a friend or family member to help you choose the perfect setting.

Pro Tip – Leave the ring with the jeweler until proposal day to be sure its not found or seen before you pop the question!

Ask for Help – You may need help in pulling off your surprise proposal, coming up with unique ideas and getting your love to the desired location. Solicit the help of a friend or proposal planner. A friend can help distract them if needed and a proposal planner can help you pull off an epic proposal that is sure to surprise your love.

 

Pro Tip – Ask a friend to suggest a mani-pedi date with your fiancé-to-be so that their picture ready for proposal day.

Pick the Perfect Setting –AKA “The How” This is a big step and one you will want to think heavily about when planning your proposal. You’ll want to choose the ambiance/setting that is a good reflection of your love story thus far. Do you travel often together? Do you share a love of astronomy or jazz music? Think about what makes your relationship unique and add those elements into your proposal.

Choose an ambiance that is fitting for how you want to ask. Would you like an intimate affair over-looking the city with a candle-lit dinner for two? Or go big with a show-stopping, crowd-encircling proposal with music and fireworks?

Do you want your family and friends to be there when you ask or afterwards at a secondary surprise location? Either way, intimate or grandeur, be sure to make it special by adding elements that represent your love for each other.

 

Pro Tip – Write down a list of places you’ve mentioned wanting to go (near and far), places you frequent often and adore, how you met, things that you both have in common, and things that your fiance-to-be loves to do. This should help get the ideas flowing!

Select the Time & Location – Now you know “The How,” you’ve chosen the perfect way to ask the big question. Now you need to select when and where you are going to get down on one knee!

If you want an intimate affair, this could be at your home, favorite date night spot, on a hiking trip to the top of a mountain, in a quiet park, or over a romantic dinner for two.

If you’re going for a grand affair, this could be in the middle of a city park, in a favorite museum, at an event (gala, concert, etc) or even in the middle of the street!

You’ll want to choose a location in advance and reserve that area if possible. Check to make sure the space is available at the day and time you prefer. Event spaces, restaurants, and parks frequently have large events that take over the entire space – be sure to check to see whats going on that day if you are popping the question in a public area.

Pro Tip – Choose a time with good daylight (earlier in the Winter) so you can capture this moment on camera. Also, think about the amount of family/friends you want present – can the space hold everyone you want to be in attendance?

Keep the Secret – This is the hard one! Tell as few people as possible so that it doesn’t slip in casual conversation. Try to stay calm leading up to proposal day and don’t mention anything about proposal day being any different from any other day. Unless you are traveling somewhere exclusive that they know about, try to not over-talk about the date you set. Cool, calm casual = perfect surprise proposal!

Pro Tip – If you get nervous easily or have a hard time not giving away surprises – have your loved one meet you at the proposal location instead of you traveling there together.

Capture the Moment – For the love of memories, and social media of course, you’ll want this perfect moment captured on camera! You’ll be able to capture the best day yet, when your love said yes! These photos end up being fun recollections of that day and all of the emotions that lead up to it. You’ll be able to share these photos with loved ones that weren’t there for the proposal and possibly even use them as your Save the Date cards for the wedding! Ask a friend to stand by in an inconspicuous location to get it on film or hire a photographer to capture the moment with high quality photos!

Pro Tip – Go with a pro! Proposal photography packages are typically inexpensive, they will capture the ask and will take a few shots of you two together afterwards for some really cute memorable photos. They will carry the right equipment and will scope the scene in advance for the perfect discrete location.

Pop the Question – You’ve made it! You planned the perfect proposal, now all you have to do is ask! Prepare a few words to say to your love before getting down on one knee and asking “Will you marry me?”

Pro Tip – When saying a little something special, keep it short and sweet before kneeling. They’ll get the hint once you are down on a bended knee! I suggest leaving the ring in the box so that there is no room for a fumble!

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CONGRATULATIONS!

You now have everything you need to start planning the perfect proposal. It’s going to memorable and amazing. Pop the question then pop some bubbly! Cheers to you and yours!

about the author…
Tionna Van Gundy

Tionna Van Gundy

Wedicity - Wedding Day Detailing

A love for organization and details is what Wedicity is all about! We love the details, so you can love your wedding day!

Tionna is a wedding & proposal planner in Chicago, IL. With over a decade of experience, she brings love stories to life from the proposal to wedding day, allowing couples and their families to enjoy it stress free.

Tionna is a lover of wine, chocolate, inspirational quotes, puppies, running, big laughs, warm coffee and all things details!

 

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