‘Til Death Do Us Party- A Halloween Inspired Wedding

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‘Til Death Do Us Party- A Halloween Inspired Wedding
a Modern take on a halloween inspired wedding

Cassandra Daye Photography and Katie Kauffmann, from Cheer and Dear, paired up to plan and execute this beautiful styled shoot, in which they chose to include many talented Brooklyn vendors.  They took inspiration from the ‘Day of the Dead’ along with the Mexican roots of the Gran Electrica, and mixed those elements with the whimsical carousel and surrounding iconic DUMBO areas to bring forth the vision of “Til Death Do us Part(y)”. By doing so, they were able to create a chic take on a Halloween Inspired Wedding without using over the top decorations and makeup.

‘Til Death Do Us Party- A Halloween Inspired Wedding
‘Til Death Do Us Party- A Halloween Inspired Wedding
‘Til Death Do Us Party- A Halloween Inspired Wedding
'Til Death Do Us Party- A Halloween Inspired Wedding
the color palette

…came to life by merging Cassandra’s moody, saturated photography with Katie’s colorful and classic design aesthetic. By mixing these two themes along with some ‘Day of the Dead’ flare, they landed on something whimsical, colorful and a little bit “dark”. In my opinion, a fresh new take that made the perfect palette for a modern Halloween inspired wedding

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Elegant Beach Elopement
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The beautiful bride wore custom fringe earrings (that are now an ONLINE EXCLUSIVE style) and the ethereal SELENE veil. The ring was shown in a beautiful rust colored diamond ring box which just happened to match the earrings and color palette perfectly. Click on the below photos to shop these accessories!

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Co-Planning & Design

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Bridal Accessories

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Dress Boutique

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Grooms Attire

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Hair Stylist

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Makeup Artist

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Moody Parisian Wedding Inspiration

Moody Parisian Wedding Inspiration
a moody Parisian Wedding 

style was envisioned for this beautiful styled shoot. We wanted to give the “big wedding feel” but do it in an intimate way where the couple can focus on each other. We started the day off with an intimate ceremony space, then transitioned to the sweetheart table for dinner, and between some dancing and cake, they finish the day with a drink or two at the craft cocktail bar. 

Moody Parisian Wedding Inspiration
Moody Parisian Wedding Inspiration
Moody Parisian Wedding Inspiration
Moody Parisian Wedding Inspiration

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The color

scheme plays on the classic Parisian  Wedding style with moodier and richer tones. With the industrial feel of the grand venue, we added feminine, delicate decor with rich florals that compliments the classic soft Parisian style but adds a modern, moody twist. The bride is wearing a wedding gown from Luxx Nova designed in Europe alongside handcrafted bridal accessories from Alyson Nicole hand crafted in Brooklyn, New York.  

Elegant Beach Elopement
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Sophie Duncan
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Wedding Day Details – How To Set The Bar Early With invitations & More

Wedding day Details - basic invite

Wedding Day Details…

Are part of the lure of a wedding. Yes, everyone is there to celebrate the love, but part of the fun is seeing everything put together and the individuality that comes with every couple. Styles range, but regardless of the theme checking out the flowers, tablescape, menu, and music are all wedding day details that your guests are excited to embrace and what they’ll leave remembering.


Specifically speaking to the brides-to-be, this is your moment! It’s a time in your life when things are all about you babe! So, why not play the whole bridal experience up from the start by setting the bar early.

A proper engagement announcement will make this whole thing feel real while also serving as the first chance to show off your new found bridal vibes. Schedule an engagement photo shoot and post those pictures everywhere! Make sure to get plenty of bling shots and incorporate your wedding style into your shoot through your outfits, scenery, and overall tone.

If keeping things intimate is more your style, extend engagement party invitations to those closest to you and share the big news with only them. Word will spread that wedding bells are ringing, but until then keep the news privy to those closest to you.

Wedding Day Detail - Basic Invite
VET your vendors
Once plans are underway vetting your vendors is mega important. Do your research before officially booking any vendor to ensure your wedding day is smooth sailing and everything you’ve been dreaming of.

Ask other couples about their experiences, check wedding websites like The Knot and Wedding Wire for vendor recommendations and reviews, and even hop on wedding-related message boards for honest advice.

incorporate invitations

Invitations and stationery can be incorporated as early on as engagement announcement and can be utilized throughout the entire planning process. Sending out custom stationery for each festivity is another great way to set the bar early on.

Showing off your style, potential wedding theme, and your wedding colors through invitations will give guests an idea of what to expect as far as décor and vibes.

Social Media Sneak Peeks

For all of you millennial brides use to sharing it all, there is a fine line between spoiling all of the surprises and keeping things a bit more private when it comes to the sacred union of marriage. Social media sneak peeks can be the perfect line to tow to engage your potential guests while also leaving a little room to the imagination.

Snap shots of potential invitation designs and asks your followers to vote! Upload a boomerang at the bridal boutique, but be sure the gown you are wearing isn’t the one you chose!

Set your wedding day details bar early by immersing yourself in all things wedding, but keep some of those day of details hush, hush to make your wedding one to remember!

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Elegant Beach Elopement


Despite its tendency to sit quietly as “America’s Dairyland,” is a state that is incredibly special. The land flows effortlessly from fields of golden wheat to breathtaking rock formations, from rolling green hills to waterfalls; and while its neighbor claims the nickname of “Land of the Lakes,” Wisconsin actually hosts a few thousand more. For brides and grooms who dream of a quiet vow ceremony against a backdrop of waves and gulls, there are two Great Lakes in particular that can claim to be as large as some seas. We wanted to showcase the pristine beauty of Lake Michigan with this styled beach elopement, so we chose a location just ten minutes outside of Milwaukee that is rich in views and boasts over 800 feet of sandy shoreline.

'She loved the sea.

She liked the sharp
salty smell of the air,
and the vastness
of the horizons
bounded only by a vault
of azure sky above.

It made her feel small,
but free as well.’
―George R.R. Martin

We kept the details elegant and minimal,

using what a bride and groom would likely bring to the shores themselves for a very intimate setting. The colorful and beautifully untamed florals provided by Vy’s Floral Design out of Chicago added the perfect accent for a free-spirited beach elopement. Our bride wore a flowing, ombré MinkMaids gown, paired with makeup that highlighted her features with a soft touch. Quartz bridal accessories completed the raw, simple elegance of her look, and our groom kept his own look natural and effortless. To highlight the tones of the water and surrounding vistas, our colors were organized around soft blues, blue-tinted greens, and white, with a touch of the delicate blush of a beach sunset.

Elegant Beach Elopement
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The Starling Tiara

Genuine crystal quartz attached to a tiara base with wire.

Rachelle Necklace

Double layer genuine crystal quartz choker pendant adorned with a Swarovski crystal.

Raeghan Earrings

Genuine crystal quartz earrings with Swarovski crystals.

Best Bachelorette Party Ideas in the US

What was once a one-night extravaganza, bachelorette parties have turned into a destination trip to spend with your best gal pals. From east to west coast and everywhere in between, we have compiled the best Bachelorette Party Ideas in the US. This guide will help you find the right city for you and your lovely ladies.

Best Bachelorette Party Ideas in the US

1. New York City

Where to eat: Get spooky at Jekyll and Hyde Club or head over to Ellen’s Stardust Diner for 50’s vibes

Where to stay: Look no further than the Gansevoort Hotel in the heart of the Meatpacking District. The views and the funky hippy atmosphere will keep you wanting more

Where to party: Calm your sweet tooth at the Sugar Factory or have the ultimate club experience at 1oak  

Where to wander: In New York, anything is possible, treat you and your ladies to a fun pole-dancing class at Body & Pole.

Best Bachelorette Party Ideas in the US

2.Las Vegas

Where to eat: Vintner Grill an American Bistro or Tacos & Tequila for Mexican style with a rock’n’roll twist.

Where to stay: The iconic Caesars Palace for the epitome of a Las Vegas experience or the  New York-New York Hotel, for incredible decor and impeccable attention to detail.

Where to party: Hit Frankie’s Tiki Room for little umbrellas and perfect tiki decor or freeze in Minus 5 Ice Bar, the only place where you will find ice in the desert.

Where to wander: If you want to get away from the hustle and bustle of the city, head to Red Rock Canyon and take your bridesmaids on a Hiking excursion

3. Miami

Where to eat:  Dine on the water at The Rusty Pelican Miami or “kick back, eat well and stay while” at the Sugarcane Raw Bar Grill.

Where to stay: For exciting pool parties, Delano South Beach Hotel has got you covered, while the Redbury South Beach has beautiful aesthetic with a relaxing rooftop pool

Where to party: LIV and Basement will have you dancing (and bowling) the night away.

Where to wander: Take a walking tour through the Art Deco district, where historic Miami comes to life.

4. New Orleans

Where to eat: Indulge in local delicacies and beignets at Cafe du Monde

Where to stay: For the edgier bridal party, Hotel Modern is the perfect stay. While Hotel Monteleone is a more elegant stay.

Where to party:  Bourbon Street, Bourbon Street, Bourbon Street. Simply taking a stroll down this infamous street will make for an amusing night. However, if you are specifically looking for live music, Three Muses is a perfect spot for a New Orleans Bachelorette party.

Where to wander: Hop on a New Orleans Airboat Tour and explore the swampy side of Louisiana.

5. Nashville

Where to eat: Dine at EiO & THE HIVE for locally sourced organic foods.

Where to stay: Since opening the Thompson Nashville is the talk of the town or book a room at the Westin Nashville, knowns for its rooftop pool, lounge and views.

Where to party: Since there are so many awesome bars and things to do in Nashville, bar hopping has become a fan fav. Some great bars to definitely stop in are Acme Feed & Seed and Tootsie’s.

Where to wander: The Pedal Tavern aka the “ultimate bar crawl” is a must!

6. Savannah

Where to eat:  Mrs. Wilkes Dining Room is true southern casual dining while Crystal Beer Parlor emits true Savannah history and culture.

Where to stay:  Airbnb’s in downtown Savannah is the way to truly experience the historic city. If an Airbnb is not your style, B Historic Hotel has minimalist decor and will make for a great stay.

Where to party: Find live music, laid-back vibes and Gothic decor at The Jinx. Or practice “the art of cocktail” in the chic 22 Square Bar.

Where to wander: Take a stroll in Savannah’s Historic District

7. Lake Tahoe

Where to eat: The Boathouse on the Pier will create the perfect ambiance as you sip your cocktails and marvel at Tahoe’s beautiful scenery.

Where to stay: The Basecamp is a quaint hotel, where each room has their own unique charm and decor, along with a twinkling courtyard with games, a bar, fire pit and hot tubs. While Tahoe Lakeshore Lodge and Spa will fill all of your luxurious needs.

Where to party: The Beacon Bar & Grill has constant live music, or opt for a boat ride with all the girls exploring Tahoe’s beauty.

Where to wander:  Zephyr Cove has all day summer activities, volleyball & water sports, and even snowmobiling in the winter months.

8. Montreal

Where to eat: Don’t overlook the Coldroom, where the entrance is actually at the exit. This industrial basement cold room restaurant is a hidden gem.

Where to stay: Can’t get better than Hotel 10 with its ideal location.

Where to party: Pop the bubbly at La Champagnerie or ride the mechanical bull at Chez Serge

Where to wander: Want to try something completely out of the ordinary? Aquamermaid offers trial mermaid classes for bachelorette parties. Yes, I said mermaid classes. They will also do a photo shoot of you and your besties.

9. Denver

Where to eat: Ever dreamed of fried chicken, ham, cheddar cheese, and local Colorado honey butter, all on a delicious biscuit? Denver Biscuit Company has biscuits that are truly a mile high.

Where to stay: The Crawford Hotel will make for a fun and unique experience in the heart of Denver

Where to party: Avanti is your one-stop-shop for the ultimate happy hour mixed with food truck styled cuisine. Also, stop by the View House for rooftop fun.

Where to wander:  If your looking for Bachelorette Party Ideas full of adventure, take a trip to the Rocky Mountains and hike to Crater Lake.

10. Chicago

Where to eat: Chicago is known for its deep dish pizza, Giordano’s or Pequods pizza is a must

Where to stay: Acme Hotel will satisfy your lifelong dream to live like a rockstar.

Where to party: At Apogee, you can enjoy magnificent views of the city of Chicago while sippin’ on a smokey and cloudy cocktail.

Where to wander: Visit the Skydeck Chicago, where you can step out into an extended glass box At 1,353 feet in the air.

Photo Credits:

Paul Dyer Photography

Paul Dyer Photography: Basecamp Hotel



Samantha McFarlen
Olympic Peninsula. Seattle. Central Washington. Portland. Destination
These Bachelorette Party Ideas will have you and your bridal party making memories that will last a lifetime!



Madison Good

Madison Good

PR/Social Media intern


I am Madison Good, born and raised in Yorktown Heights, New York. After graduating high school, I headed to Hofstra University to pursue a career in Public Relations, specifically Fashion PR. I am currently a Junior here at Hofstra with a major in PR and a minor is sociology. I love fashion and the freedom of expression it instills in each and every one of us.


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    Bridal Shower Games

    5 of the Best Bridal Shower Games

    Throwing a bridal shower and want to make it a day the lovely couple will never forget? Fill the day with laughter and memories by playing these bridal shower games. These interactive and downloadable game cards will make the shower super exciting and enjoyable. Have some friendly competition, hand out prizes and earn some major brownie points with the bride.

    He Said, She Said


    A game of who said it! Your guests will have a list of questions that either the bride or groom has said. The players will then guess who they think said the phrase. Guest with the most correct answers receives a prize.

    Find the Guest


    This game is not only fun but can help your guests mingle and get to know each other. Once receiving the game card, the players will have to hunt down any guest that meets the qualifications listed. This game can last throughout the entire party. At the end of the night, the guest that finds the most people, will win a prize.

    Over or Under


    This friendly guessing game challenges the players to see who is really paying attention. Each guest will receive the downloadable bridal shower game card and will have to choose whether the phrase on the game card is “over” or “under” the number given. 

    Bridal Shower Games

    Ring Hunt


    Send your guests on a wild goose chase to find the most rings hidden in the shower.  The guest with the most rings at the end of the shower will go home with something special.

    Who Knows the Bride Best


    The ultimate test of who really knows the bride. A list of questions will be given on the game card and the guests will have to answer based on their knowledge of the bride. Not only will they receive a prize, but will get the ultimate bragging rights. 

    Nobody wants a dull bridal shower, spice it up and have your guest play these awesome bridal shower games! To make it easy for you, we’ve included a downloadable & printable version of the games. Each game card comes in a variety of colors to fit the theme of the shower. Make lasting memories and have a blast!



    about the author…

    Madison Good

    Madison Good

    PR/Social Media Intern

    I am Madison Good, born and raised in Yorktown Heights, New York. After graduating high school, I headed to Hofstra University to pursue a career in Public Relations, specifically Fashion PR. I am currently a Junior here at Hofstra with a major in PR and a minor in sociology. I love fashion and the freedom of expression it instills in each and every one of us.



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    Skylar + Adam’s Winter Wonderland Wedding

    Tell us your story… 

    Adam and I met at the start of our senior year at Franklin & Marshall College in 2011. We locked eyes across a smoky bar, smiled, and looked away. We both couldn’t help stealing one more glance of each other at the same time, and then Adam came over to introduce himself. We talked until the next morning, and I texted my sister saying I had met “either my future husband or my new best friend.” We’ve been together ever since!

    Where did you two tie the knot? 

    We held our ceremony and reception at Highlands Country Club in Garrison, NY. We loved this venue because of its balance between rustic and elegant. The chandelier in the ballroom is stunning, but the working fireplaces and the tavern area give it a homey feel, as well. We could picture the twinkle lights in the solarium giving a romantic vibe to the ceremony, and we loved picturing our friends and family gathered around the hearths throughout the evening. We wanted the wedding to feel less like a production, and more like an intimate dinner party.

    Spill the details about your wedding! 

    I had always dreamed of having a December wedding, and almost couldn’t believe that my dream came true. The holiday season is my favorite time of year, and I wanted to bring that cheer to our wedding without having it scream Christmas.

    We chose a rich pine green as the central color, with accents of navy, ivory, burgundy, and gold. These colors all came together especially nicely in our bridesmaids’ and groomsmens’ outfits. The girls got to choose their own style within a line from Alfred Sung, and the guys all wore their own navy blue suits. The girls’ navy pashminas and the guys’ plaid ties from Tie Bar brought the looks together perfectly!

    For flowers, we wanted lots of greenery with white and pops of red. My very talented aunt did all of the flowers for our ceremony space, including the stunning arbor. Florist Edwina Sylvester created bouquets and centerpieces beyond our wildest dreams.

    The one thing we couldn’t plan for was having the first snowfall of the season in the Hudson Valley bless us on December 9th. It created a snowglobe within our little venue, and really added a magical element to the whole day.

    It was a true winter wonderland wedding!

    I had a lot of fun DIY-ing many elements of our wedding. I practiced my hand lettering for months, and actually addressed all the Save the Dates and invitations, as well as the place cards. I handmade all of the signage. I also stood over a hot stove in the summer months melting wax with rosemary fragrance oil to make almost 150 candles as our favors. I may be crazy, but it meant so much for me to add that personal touch for our guests!

    I reached out to Alyson because I wanted a beaded comb for my hair that would match a specific pair of earrings. My grandmother’s brothers gave her a pair of pearl and diamond earrings as a wedding gift, and my mom wore those earrings for her wedding. I was so touched when my mom suggested that I wear them for my wedding, too. I sent Alyson photos of the earrings and my dress, and she went to work creating the most gorgeous head piece. Now I have another treasure to pass down to future brides in my family!

    What was your favorite moment?

    There are so many moments to choose from! It was the happiest 24-hour blur of my whole life. The ceremony was particularly special to both of us. With the sun setting and the snow falling around us, it felt like we were in our own little world. We wrote statements of our love to one another, followed by traditional vows. I think hearing what each other had to say, and then repeating the promises that men and women have made for centuries, then actually getting to say “I do”, was just totally surreal and blissful for both of us!

    Skylar + Adam's Winter Wonderland Wedding


    Ceremony/Reception Venue: Highlands Country Club 
    Entertainment (DJ/Band): DJ Relentliss (Greg Lissauer) 
    Hair Stylist: Elyssa Michaels 
    Wedding Dress: Justin Alexander
    Bespoke Beaded Hair Adornment: Alyson Nicole
    Engagement ring and diamond wedding band: Studio1040 
    Gold wedding bands: Bario Neal
    Fur coat: last minute on Etsy!

    What to Wear for Your Bridal Shower

    What to Wear for Your Bridal Shower

    What bride-to-be doesn’t want to look absolutely fabulous for her Bridal Shower? We know all brides have a million and one things to do as their special day gets closer, so these style tips and ideas on What to Wear for Your Bridal Shower will make life much easier. The bride should definitely stand out. It is typical to be the only one wearing white, but based on your style and personality, I say spice up the white with amazing accessories and pops of color.

    Traditional with a Twist

    Really cannot decide what to wear for your bridal shower? You can never go wrong with the perfect white dress and an eye-catching shoe.  Emeralds, blues, and yellows can really make a simple white dress stand out. Have fun with it and add a little color to your day! When accessorizing this look, simple but elegant pieces are a must. If your shoes are going to be the pop of color, delicate accessories will pull the entire ensemble together.

    Option One

    What to Wear for Your Bridal Shower

    Pair this traditional yet modern dress from Bloomingdales with the Ora delicate flower sash and matching hair pins. To spice up the look, rock these emerald pumps from Steve Madden

    Option Two

    The Christina sash will add just the right amount of bling to the Bardot Lace-Inset Ruffled Dress from Bloomingdale’s. Pull the ensemble together with feathered earrings and a subtle tiara. To match the gold tones of your accessories, a yellow sandal with a chunky heel is perfect for an outdoor bridal shower.

    Daring yet Darling

    If you’re going for a more editorial look, asymmetrical shapes and colors are definitely in. A high fashion jumpsuit, a unique mini with bold colors, will have all your guests in awe. To complete this kind of outfit, eye-popping accessories are the way to go. Choose a bold belt, dramatic earrings, a statement necklace or even a fabulous crown.

    Option One

    This bold pixy from Neiman Marcus paired with the Lia layered necklace and gold hairpins turn traditional bridal shower attire on its head.

    Option Two

    Choose an asymmetrical jumpsuit from Bloomies for a really unique look. Add your own personal flair to the look by pairing the charming Eloise sash, crystal bracelet and Sacha earrings.

    Option Three

    Make this elegant jumpsuit from Neiman Marucs your own by pairing it with the extremely bold Indie neckalce and matching feathered hairpin.

    Truly Bohemian

    Finally, for a more effortless look, a stunning long dress with bohemian accessories will have you looking gorgeous while still being comfortable! Delicate tiaras, leafy crowns, layered necklaces and feathered hair pieces, yes, please!

    Option One

    Free People’s Love Spell lace maxi is the epitome of effortless. With the Laurel leafy crown, long draping earrings and a subtle belt to bring in the waist will have you looking like a true bohemian goddess.

    Option Two

    Our intricate Thora crown matches perfectly with the Love to Love You Cutwork Dress by Free People. Matching gold earrings, choker and/or bracelet will pull the entire look together.

    Option Three

    Intricate lace in the Cherie Bodycon Dress from Free People, exquisite Finley earrings, and a beautiful tiara make for the perfect look for any bohemian bride.

    Whichever look you are going for, these amazing accessories and style tips for What to Wear for Your Bridal Shower will have you looking and feeling your best!



    about the author…

    Madison Good

    Madison Good

    PR/Social Media Intern

    I am Madison Good, born and raised in Yorktown Heights, New York. After graduating high school, I headed to Hofstra University to pursue a career in Public Relations, specifically Fashion PR. I am currently a Junior here at Hofstra with a major in PR and a minor in sociology. I love fashion and the freedom of expression it instills in each and every one of us.


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    Modern Valentine’s Wedding Inspiration

    Modern Valentine’s Wedding Inspiration

    Happy V-Day!

    If you’re looking for some inspiration for your special day, look no further than a Valentine’s Wedding. Yes I know, Valentine’s Day can definitely be overwhelmingly pink, filled with candy hearts and teddy bears. However, with a modern twist, your special day can ooze romance. Deep reds, creams, hints of gold and rustic tones will create the perfect valentine’s ambiance, without all the cliché’s.

    To start planning a chic & modern Valentine’s Wedding, the perfect color scheme is essential. Burgandy, gold, beige and creams will set the subtle and elegant mood. With this brilliant palette, everything will fall into place.

    Starting with invitations, a modern brushstroke design with sophisticated gold calligraphy from Elli.com is the perfect mix of originality and simplicity. To match the deep reds of the invitations, the one tier ombre cake from Mito Sweets, is the perfect equivalent. Rich greens are the perfect addition to the decor. Besides the curling vines on the cake, pairing burgundy tones with an abundance of greenery, make for the ultimate romantic ambiance. Incorporating eucalyptus, vines and other leafy greens make for the perfect table decor and flower arrangments. Within the table decor and flowers arrangments, hints of gold and blush tie everything together for a charming dining experience.

    Now, what would a perfect valentine’s wedding be without the bride and the groom? A long bohemian lace gown with an elegant open back and an attached lace cape from Grace Loves Lace will add the perfect amount of drama. For the groom, a velvet burgundy tuxedo jacket, paired with the class white collared shirt and black pants, allows for tradition with an interesting twist that even goes along with the theme. A subtle boutonniere with beiges, blushes, greens, and a pop of red ties together the entire ensemble.

    Photo Credits: Elli.com
    Photo Credits: Mito Sweets
    Photo Credits: Honey Photographs. Valentine's Wedding
    Photo Credits: Junebug Weddings & Rubi Z Photography
    Photo Credits: Grace Loves Lace- Verdelle 2.0
    Photo Credits: Grace Loves Lace- Verdelle 2.0
    Photo Credits: Michelle Edgemont Photography
    Photo Credits: Taralynn Lawton
    Photo Credits: Emily Millay Photography
    Photo Credits: Taralynn Lawton
    Photo Credits: Emily Millay Photography

    Let the season of love inspired you! Have fun and create the valentine’s wedding of your dreams!



    about the author…

    Madison Good

    Madison Good

    PR/Social Media Intern


    I am Madison Good, born and raised in Yorktown Heights, New York. After graduating high school, I headed to Hofstra University to pursue a career in Public Relations, specifically Fashion PR. I am currently a Junior here at Hofstra with a major in PR and a minor in sociology. I love fashion and the freedom of expression it instills in each and every one of us.


    email: mgood1@pride.hofstra.edu 

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    How To Plan the Perfect Proposal

    Are you ready to pop the question?


    You found your person, the one, your best friend, your soulmate. Congratulations! Our hearts go searching for its other half without us even knowing it and sometimes when we find that other piece, it takes us by surprise. You are probably filled with emotion right now; excitement, love, and maybe a little bit of nerves. Don’t worry, nervousness is normal. Its really just excitement tricking you!

    So, you’ve made up your mind, you are going to ask your love to marry you!

    Well, thats the pre-step to the 7-steps to plan the perfect proposal.

    Hooray! You already completed this pre-step and now can jump right into planning an epic proposal that will be sure to have your love excitedly saying Yes!

    Get the Ring –Get the ring that will melt their heart. The one they may have been looking at on Pintrest, the one you browsed by a few moments longer at the jeweler or the heirloom ring that has been in your family for ages. The ring is a symbol of your love and commitment to each other and if you need help in selecting one, ask a friend or family member to help you choose the perfect setting.

    Pro Tip – Leave the ring with the jeweler until proposal day to be sure its not found or seen before you pop the question!

    Ask for Help – You may need help in pulling off your surprise proposal, coming up with unique ideas and getting your love to the desired location. Solicit the help of a friend or proposal planner. A friend can help distract them if needed and a proposal planner can help you pull off an epic proposal that is sure to surprise your love.


    Pro Tip – Ask a friend to suggest a mani-pedi date with your fiancé-to-be so that their picture ready for proposal day.

    Pick the Perfect Setting –AKA “The How” This is a big step and one you will want to think heavily about when planning your proposal. You’ll want to choose the ambiance/setting that is a good reflection of your love story thus far. Do you travel often together? Do you share a love of astronomy or jazz music? Think about what makes your relationship unique and add those elements into your proposal.

    Choose an ambiance that is fitting for how you want to ask. Would you like an intimate affair over-looking the city with a candle-lit dinner for two? Or go big with a show-stopping, crowd-encircling proposal with music and fireworks?

    Do you want your family and friends to be there when you ask or afterwards at a secondary surprise location? Either way, intimate or grandeur, be sure to make it special by adding elements that represent your love for each other.


    Pro Tip – Write down a list of places you’ve mentioned wanting to go (near and far), places you frequent often and adore, how you met, things that you both have in common, and things that your fiance-to-be loves to do. This should help get the ideas flowing!

    Select the Time & Location – Now you know “The How,” you’ve chosen the perfect way to ask the big question. Now you need to select when and where you are going to get down on one knee!

    If you want an intimate affair, this could be at your home, favorite date night spot, on a hiking trip to the top of a mountain, in a quiet park, or over a romantic dinner for two.

    If you’re going for a grand affair, this could be in the middle of a city park, in a favorite museum, at an event (gala, concert, etc) or even in the middle of the street!

    You’ll want to choose a location in advance and reserve that area if possible. Check to make sure the space is available at the day and time you prefer. Event spaces, restaurants, and parks frequently have large events that take over the entire space – be sure to check to see whats going on that day if you are popping the question in a public area.

    Pro Tip – Choose a time with good daylight (earlier in the Winter) so you can capture this moment on camera. Also, think about the amount of family/friends you want present – can the space hold everyone you want to be in attendance?

    Keep the Secret – This is the hard one! Tell as few people as possible so that it doesn’t slip in casual conversation. Try to stay calm leading up to proposal day and don’t mention anything about proposal day being any different from any other day. Unless you are traveling somewhere exclusive that they know about, try to not over-talk about the date you set. Cool, calm casual = perfect surprise proposal!

    Pro Tip – If you get nervous easily or have a hard time not giving away surprises – have your loved one meet you at the proposal location instead of you traveling there together.

    Capture the Moment – For the love of memories, and social media of course, you’ll want this perfect moment captured on camera! You’ll be able to capture the best day yet, when your love said yes! These photos end up being fun recollections of that day and all of the emotions that lead up to it. You’ll be able to share these photos with loved ones that weren’t there for the proposal and possibly even use them as your Save the Date cards for the wedding! Ask a friend to stand by in an inconspicuous location to get it on film or hire a photographer to capture the moment with high quality photos!

    Pro Tip – Go with a pro! Proposal photography packages are typically inexpensive, they will capture the ask and will take a few shots of you two together afterwards for some really cute memorable photos. They will carry the right equipment and will scope the scene in advance for the perfect discrete location.

    Pop the Question – You’ve made it! You planned the perfect proposal, now all you have to do is ask! Prepare a few words to say to your love before getting down on one knee and asking “Will you marry me?”

    Pro Tip – When saying a little something special, keep it short and sweet before kneeling. They’ll get the hint once you are down on a bended knee! I suggest leaving the ring in the box so that there is no room for a fumble!

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    You now have everything you need to start planning the perfect proposal. It’s going to memorable and amazing. Pop the question then pop some bubbly! Cheers to you and yours!

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    Tionna Van Gundy

    Tionna Van Gundy

    Wedicity - Wedding Day Detailing

    A love for organization and details is what Wedicity is all about! We love the details, so you can love your wedding day!

    Tionna is a wedding & proposal planner in Chicago, IL. With over a decade of experience, she brings love stories to life from the proposal to wedding day, allowing couples and their families to enjoy it stress free.

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